smalldarlinglesbian:

the-kalamity-kid:

smalldarlinglesbian:

👊🏼 https://twitter.com/peachgillies/status/986282636581650437?s=21

I really loved this BUT
these terms are also used as gender expression which is probably confusing as fuck
I’ve seen bi women who identify as femme, bigender people who identify as butch, and it’s not acceptable to say they can’t identify in a way that feels right to them 
These terms are not exclusively for lesbians and the trans and biphobia inherent in that viewpoint is unsettling 

I’m a trans guy; I don’t at all have the experience and knowledge OP does, I just know what I’ve seen and what feels right and wrong to me

How the fuck do you think it feels to have lesbian culture bastardized by people who aren’t lesbians?! Fuck off.