there-was-a-girl:

mossghoul:

Locker-room fantasies, sleepover fantasies, that entire subset of fantasy among men is about being aroused by watching women (and more disturbingly, teenage girls) who actively do not expect or want men to see them, sexualising a situation where they feel safe from men surveilling them and actively violating those feelings of safety. The whole thing is so ick, I hate that it’s a teen movie staple, that we grow up watching teen boys crawling through vents, clambering through gardens, and looking through keyholes at girls, as if it’s harmless.

And like…most of the things men/boys imagine AREN’T happening. It’s all gross porn fantasies. Girls aren’t lounging around naked in locker rooms in teeny towels. Ask any girl and she’ll probably tell you about her skills in changing bras under her shirt or about how a locker room smells like a bath and body works store because no one uses the showers these days you cover that sweat with perfume. IF you even sweated and didn’t just spend gym walking the track. And sleepovers aren’t lesbian orgies with girls in sheer teddies. It’s eating Cheetos and chanting Bloody Mary into mirrors and shit.